What part of the book touched you in a personal way?
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Because Julian looks "white" and was adopted by loving middle class parents, I think that Paula concludes that he is a softie and could never have the toughness that she has, after her unconventional childhood, including "juvie." I think that one thing that Paula may overlook is the fact that toughness can be gained from being loved and undamaged - as in Julian's case. He was allowed to grow up whole.
The fact that he cared for his mother at the end of her life says a great deal about him as a son and as a compassionate human being.
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I think Julien is tough or has a side of stoicism mixed with empathy. Engraved on my brain is the image of my sister in Hospice when the nurses turned her on her side to make her more comfortable Her thinness made her nightgown look like fabric draped over a hanger. All one can do at that point is take a deep breath and reach out to help the nurse. It is a mental toughness that forces words of hope and love from one's mouth.
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